Mac user having all kinds of problems

Could you be a bit more specific about what happens, or doesn’t happen, when you connect the Fuze to your Mac?

What version of OS X are you running?

I’ve written a description of how to get MP3 players to work with recent OS X versions at http://guyscharf.wordpress.com/mp3-on-macintosh/. You might see if anything on that page helps you.