big problem

I don’t see any problem. One (the one that says this is now it should be) is connected in MTP mode, and the other (yours) is connected in MSC mode.

Which mode is better? Depends on how you plan to use the device.

  • ‘Syncing’ with Windows Media Player, Rhapsody, Napster, Audible audio books or any other DRM-crippled or time-sensitve files = MTP.
  • Load your own music (like .mp3’s bought on-line, or ripped from your own CD’s) via drag & drop = MSC mode.

Don’t use the Auto Defect mode.